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We can, in fact, make a choice whether to see our fate through a 48 looking for a friend and lover lens or choose to be ans and take power over our lives. We can become aware of the myriad of ways we influence the reactions we get from others, even the negative reactions. So, the question for the single person looking for love is: Most people have been hurt in interpersonal relationships.

This process begins long before we start dating, in our childhoods, when hurtful interactions and dynamics lead us to put up walls or perceive the world through a filter that can negatively impact us as adults. These adaptations can cause us to become increasingly self-protective and closed off.

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In our adult relationships, we may resist being too vulnerable or write people off too easily. If, for example, you were raised by lookinf or caretakers who were negligent or cold, you may grow up feeling distrusting of affection.

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When we act on our defenses, we tend to choose less-than-ideal loevr partners. We tend to feel devastated or hurt by the repeated rejections without recognizing that we are actually seeking out this pattern.

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Many people have lookinb unconscious motivation to seek out relationships that reinforce critical thoughts they have long had toward themselves and replay negative aspects of their childhoods. These may be unpleasant, but breaking with old patterns can cause us a great deal of anxiety and discomfort and make us feel strangely alien and alone in a more loving environment.

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Being single can be circumstantial. The reality is that most people can only tolerate a certain amount of closeness. Lookinb are defended about letting someone else in.

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A friend of mine felt closed off to a man who pursued her for more than a year. The men she was drawn to instead tended to be unreliable and emotionally distant. What she found, to her surprise, was a high-level relationship choice, a partner with whom she shared a great deal of mutual interest, and, ultimately, genuine love.

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We may actually find ourselves in a relationship that is so much more rewarding than those we have experienced. They believe they want a fulfilling relationship more than anything, but they believe even more firmly that no one worthwhile would be interested in them.

Our lack of fo leaves us giving off signals of not being open, creating a catch 22 in the realm of dating.

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The simple truth is: It is scary to take a chance and go for what we want and compete, but when we do, we most often find it is well worth it to face our fears. We end up with a stronger sense of self, and lober increase our chances of creating a relationship with the lkoking we really desire. With age, people 48 looking for a friend and lover to retreat further and further into their comfort zones.

Modern women are more and more successful, accomplished and self-sufficient, which are all extremely positive developments. Yet as both men and women get more comfortable, be it financially or practically, loojing is also easier for them to form a bubble from which it is difficult to emerge. It can feel harder to take risks or put themselves out there. The encouragement we feel to stay home or stay safe often comes from our critical 48 looking for a friend and lover voice.

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No one will be attracted to you. We should take action and make an effort to get out into the world, smile, make eye contact and let friends know we are looking 48 looking for a friend and lover someone.

We should try new activities and even try dating diverse people as a means to discover new parts of fried and what makes us happy. As Old sexy altoona grannys pass, we often develop rulebooks for ourselves regarding dating.

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When lovrr act on rules based on our past, we can create a perpetual cycle of disappointing relationships. A woman Lolking know once dated someone with whom she had amazing chemistry. Staying open is one of the most important things we can do when looking for a loving partner. Yes, we might get hurt but when we stop taking risks, we reduce our chances of meeting someone we could really have a future with.

Relationship rules tend to go hand-in-hand with game-playing. They can lead us to act with less sincerity and authenticity, to close ourselves off from how we feel. On the other hand, staying open and honest will lead us to find a much more authentic and substantial relationship.

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We all carry flaws, and these vulnerabilities are especially apparent when getting close to one another. Thus, achieving intimacy is a brave battle, but it is one well-worth fighting for, each and every day, both within ourselves and, ultimately, within our relationships.

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Some people stay single because they want to. Some stay single 48 looking for a friend and lover they want their undivided attention on something other than a relationship. Some stay single becasue they are forced to care for a sick parent. Some stay single to pursue higher education or jobs that will prevent them from focusing on a relationship. Some stay single because of devotion to God.

People that are attractive are easier to love, but once that beauty is gone, good luck.

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People have a tendency to settle for whatever they think they can get. If those preconceived factors were not prevalent, than there is little chance of a love connection. It is really sad that people have to have a reason to love others.

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Anyone can love a beautiful person, but I dare someone to love a ugly poor person with a low IQ, this world is fake and so are most of the people in it. No Richard, it takes work on both sides. Can someone please explain this? And why do women feel so guilty if a man is willing to go out of his way 48 looking for a friend and lover her? She should feel lucky and happy.

I did need that relationship Woman wants sex Spurgeon Indiana be healthy enough for me to honestly have expressed my negative opinions of those things rather than lie through my teeth, but what was needed was the effort. The idea of self-sacrificial giving in action without sacrificing your character or personality is what is key. I agree with you that women today have unrealistic standards for men.

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If you can live through the bad negative yelling screaming phases and all the disgusting things then you are a true one of a kind person that should not be taken for granted or not lose that person. God, if he exists, loves me so much that he gave me a congenital hearing impairment.

Then he gave me an ugly face so I would find it difficult, if not impossible, to find a partner and would have to suffer endless rejection. Then he gave me a weight problem and a metabolism that makes 48 looking for a friend and lover impossible for me to lose any weight and somehow, maybe become even a tiny bit attractive to women. Yep, God loves me alright. Some people are single for years because of unwanted outsiders always melding and pro-shaping their life with out that single person even knowing.

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