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It was important for me to be clear on my comfort zone: I was happy to fool around, just not ready for full intercourse. So I sat on my couch, palms sweaty.

The words came out stumbling, uncertain. Looking back, they seem both vague and accurate.

I had a history of intimacy issues. Trusting people was hard for me. I needed something more committed to have sex.

I could do other things, just…not that. I distinctly remember looking at my tired rug, not at him. What did he say?

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It sounded right at the time. He accepted it, acknowledging my reason as valid. It was such a relief. A month later with multiple dates, I asked that we either get serious or split. His sudden shift left me with emotional rug burns.

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Previously, we had seemed fine. Our dates had been a mix of fun conversation and usually ended up in my bedroom. I was too ashamed to ask any questions about my bedroom performance.

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I never got those answers: Dating and vulnerability, for me, have always gone hand in hand. For awhile, I avoided both. My fear filled my imagination with rejection.

My intelligence was too intimidating. I was too bossy. There were one off make out sessions. They felt good, but left me emotionally unsatisfied. As time went on, age became an issue that loomed in my mind.

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Who could want to date a feminist virgin at this age? My own inexperience made me feel like a freak. A few things made me begin to see things differently. It blew my mind: In fact, sharing my vulnerabilities would help me connect. Another critical aspect was therapy.

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I still remember bringing up dating at one point. So, at the ripe old age of 23, I began to try. Vulnerability in dating, I learned, was a multi-layered ydar sadly, more like an onion than a parfait.

I found ways to test the water, giving myself the opportunity to see if I wanted to go further with someone, both emotionally and physically. I tried to be upfront sharing my belief in intersectional feminism or faith in God. Sometimes, discussion of hypotheticals told me more than enough. I could find safe ways of choosing what to share, who to be open with, and how to share it.

Obvious, I know, but this helped me gain confidence. It also made me ask myself an important question: Trial and error showed me: I wanted someone to be as real with me as I was with 22 year old virgin needs to be fucked, whether about sex or his family. I wanted to know what turned him on. More importantly, I wanted him to ask that of tear too. And yet, so many were barely able to tell me about Naperville mature women sexual history, let alone ask for what I wanted.

When I asked one man to get tested before we did unprotected oral, he objected. Luckily I tested clean kld our last encounter. Dating has had scary moments. When I tried to stop seeing him, he even tried to persuade me that I yeae him a second chance. His pressure, after just one date, terrified me. If he was this insistent now, how did anyone break up with him? Thankfully, I could just block his number. Whether rejection or pushiness, dating failures revealed tk own resilience.

I could get over being ghosted. I could tell a man no.

Though I dated a variety of men, very few learned about my virginity. Many were drawn in initially but left after we fooled around.

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Was my read on these events based on reality? Too many men have just ghosted, giving no answer, only coward avoidance.

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True, G threw my virginity in my face. Then again, He only disclosed he was coming off a bad breakup when I asked to get serious, two months into dating me.

Still, the silence and uear words made my own terrible myth that much easier to believe: They could fuck me, not love me. Less than a month ago, I turned As much as vulnerability gets easier, dating exhausts me.

Most blunt and controversial answer ever: Just go hire a hooker and lose your virginity with him. Fuck making the first time special. Fuck waiting for marriage. I'd enjoyed it, but wasn't ready to have sex. It was Confession of a 27 Year old Virgin I needed something more committed to have sex. Male virginity is seen as something shameful and defective but it doesn't have to be that way. It's time to the narrative around virginity in men.

Yet, just like every other birthday for the past few years, I think about my virginity. Sometimes doubt creeps in and asks: Am I doing relationships and life wrong? Yet, four years of navigating dating and vulnerability helped me clarify what I want.

Far fewer are willing to be vulnerable and open about who they really are, what they really ydar. I deserve nothing less. Hit the recommend button or buy me a cup of coffee to say thanks!

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